Why Smart Leaders Lose It During Meetings
- Erika Willitzer

- May 13
- 3 min read

Even the smartest leaders can have a bad meeting moment.
You know the one.
Someone challenges a decision. A conversation goes in circles. A team member misses the point for the third time. A project that was supposed to be “on track” suddenly is not. And before you know it, your calm, capable leadership voice has left the room.
It happens.
But when a leader loses their cool in a meeting, the damage can last longer than the moment. People may stop speaking honestly. Teams may get defensive. The real issue may get buried under tension. And the meeting becomes less about solving the problem and more about recovering from the reaction.
The good news? Staying calm is a skill. And like any skill, it can be practiced.

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